Selena Gomez Reveals Whether She Regrets Her Past Love Life! Find Out What She Revealed?

In a candid interview released on March 24, Selena Gomez opened up about her past relationships and the personal growth she has experienced over the years. Joined by her fiancé, Benny Blanco, the couple shared insights into their bond and how they’ve learned from their previous experiences. The conversation was part of their joint appearance on the On Purpose with Jay Shetty podcast, just days after the release of their collaborative album, I Said I Love You First.

Learning from Past Mistakes

Gomez, 32, shared how her previous relationships shaped her emotional maturity. Reflecting on past experiences, she admitted to being reactive and sometimes overly emotional during disagreements. “I’ve been guilty though to start. I think for me, I necessarily felt like in other situations of mine I was very reactive,” Gomez said. She went on to explain that this emotional reaction was part of the reason she spent five years focusing on herself before entering her current relationship with Blanco.

Emotional Maturity and Growth

In the interview, Gomez spoke about her growth and how time has allowed her to reach a better emotional state. She revealed that she wouldn’t have been ready to be with Blanco a decade ago, as she was still healing from past experiences. “I just wouldn’t have been in the right headspace, and I don’t think you deserved what I had gone through before,” Gomez confessed. Over time, she has learned from her mistakes and worked toward emotional readiness, now ensuring that her relationship with Blanco is built on understanding and maturity.

The Role of Patience in Their Relationship

Blanco’s influence on Gomez has also been transformative. The couple discussed how patience has played a key role in resolving conflicts. Gomez expressed that in the past, she struggled with wanting to be “right” during arguments, but Blanco’s calm and understanding approach helped her shift her mindset. “If I even get to the point where I’m so frustrated, he’s very quick to understand,” she said. This emotional support has helped her grow and transform her approach to conflict resolution.

A Love Story in the Making

Gomez and Blanco began their romantic relationship in 2023, making it public in December of the same year. Just a year later, Blanco proposed to Gomez with a stunning marquise diamond, marking a new chapter in their relationship. Following their engagement, the couple released their album I Said I Love You First, which chronicles their journey together—from their individual pasts to their future. The album, described as a product of their genuine connection, reflects the authenticity of their love and creative collaboration.